Deceptive trick that will make you comfortable for a while, but want to really happy life, we must understand the hidden truth behind the lies.
Lie 1: everything will be alright, as long as I lost 10 pounds, quit your current job, or at least find a better man.
Truth: In fact, there is no such thing! Conditions change, you still would be any different, except the numbers on the scales a little something, you lose your job, or when you play around at home watching the United States more than one person. After freshness, you must turn to other things complained. Happiness comes from within you, it is better value now have, everything is not as bad as you think.
Lies 2: is the gold will shine and do their own work, without others approval.
Truth: unknown You must never give someone else the bad impression left boastful, but also had not been appreciated. Most of your silence is boss in exchange for your silence.
Lies 3: He loves me, but he is ashamed to admit it.
Truth: the love to say it really so difficult? If you feel he is afraid to show it, you should feel afraid of him.
Lies 4: say, a little lying does not matter, people never know.
Truth: Whether you have been exposed lies, life will continue, this is right. But the strange is that if you are dishonest, you will find everyone lie to you, this is not worth the candle?
Lie 5: Yes, I would like to keep the appointment, once again no big deal.
Truth: If you really want to keep the appointment, it would be great, say yes to life is a beautiful thing. But if you just conditioned to say to all invited yes, that means: you in order to enhance the quality of life of others, abandoned his.
Lies 6: Some people just life is good, why do I not one of them.
Truth: Who provided you're not one of them? Low self-esteem will weaken your ability to control the destiny. Good things happen, you will think this is just coincidence. The more you believe in luck, the less confidence in their own. Everyone has different strengths, others may now be the envy of you!
Lies 7: Everything is in my grasp, when I want to quit can be.
Truth: midnight snacks, cola for water, sleep late the morning? ? Know they have these bad habits, is still looking for an excuse, you really tricky. If everything really is in your hands, from now on bad habits, to prove to yourself!
Lies 8:SunscreenUsed did not, too lazy to buy, tanning does not matter a bit.
Truth: wrinkles andSkin cancerIs how come, you know?
Lies 9: I am very strong, do not need any help.
Truth: refused to recognize the emotional support they need, let others think you are very independent. But in fact it is your self-protection, a means of hiding vulnerable. Stop fooling, no comfort in your friends closer together than each of the.
Lie 10: If I have time, some day, fitness, travel abroad or to further studies.
Truth: Everyone busy. For you want to do something but has not achieved, the time is indeed a good enough excuse. In fact, deep inside the emotional fear of failure, is the real obstacles. If that is really your dream, Just do it!
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